Cognitive Distortions
All-or-nothing thinking: Viewing situations on one extreme or another instead of on a continuum.
“If my child does bad things, it’s because I am a bad parent.”
Catastrophizing: Predicting only negative outcomes for the future.
“If I fail my final, my life will be over.”
Disqualifying or discounting the positive: Telling yourself that the good things that happen to you don’t count.
“My daughter told her friend that I was the best Dad in the world, but I’m sure she was just being nice.”
Emotional reasoning: Letting one’s feeling about something overrule facts to the contrary.
“Even though Steve is here at work late every day, I know I work harder than anyone else at my job.”
Labeling: Giving someone or something a label without finding out more about it/them.
“My daughter would never do anything I disapproved of.”
Magnification/minimization: Emphasizing the negative or playing down the positive of a situation.
“My professor said he made some corrections on my paper, so I know I’ll probably fail the class.”
Mental filter/tunnel vision: Placing all one’s attention, or seeing only the negatives of a situation.
“My husband says he wishes I was better at housekeeping, so I must be a lousy wife.”
“My daughter’s boyfriend got suspended from school. He’s a loser and won’t ever amount to anything.”
Mind reading: Believing you know what others are thinking.
“My house was dirty when my friends came over, so I know they think I’m a slob.”
Overgeneralization: Making an overall negative conclusion beyond the current situation.
“My husband didn’t kiss me when he came home this evening. Maybe he doesn’t love me anymore.”
Personalization: Thinking the negative behavior of others has something to do with you.
“My daughter has been pretty quiet today. I wonder what I did to upset her.”
“Should” and “must” statements: Having a concrete idea of how people should behave.
“I should get all A’s to be a good student.”
Reference: Cully, J.A., & Teten, A.L. 2008. A Therapist’s Guide to Brief Cognitive Behavioral Therapy.
Department of Veterans Affairs South Central MIRECC, Houston.